Defending yourself against what, exactly?

This:

If I believed you capable of long term romantic relationships, I’d pity your spouse.

I told you that you and everyone here is physically attractive and you told me this. Damn.

now you’re gonna tell me that all hetero women need to be constantly dicked down or they leave? Where is that coming from?

It comes from reality. This reminds me of the Helen Kane song “He’s so unusual”. Some day it’ll click and you’ll turn around and look at your life and go “Oh shit! There were all these women who were in love with me and I had no idea. In hindsight, I realize I was kind of cruel to them, their feelings, and their desires.”

You kids are overthinking it here. Does she make your dick hard? Does she want to suck it? If so, congratulations, you’ve found love! Go for it. Don’t kill it with your intellect.

everyone except me is hiding the truth about what they really feel, but I know the truth!

This is a strawman.

in the face of everyone correcting you

The Fediverse isn’t everyone. Everyone on the Internet is not even remotely normal and the Fediverse is pure distilled weird from the weirdest people on Earth. Yeah, I’m sticking to my guns.

You think you’ve found a gotcha, but you’re still just outing yourself.

You’re the one going for the gotchas and the dunks. I’m just defending myself. You know I don’t need therapy. You’re just insulting me.

If I believed you capable of long term romantic relationships, I’d pity your spouse.

I pity the hetero cis male who truly believes that his wife always loved him for his intelligence when she dumps him because his doctor can’t prescribe him Viagra and Cialis. Nobody’s hiding shit. We all know the truth. There’s a good reason why these meds are important and covered by insurance. Impotence destroys relationships and whole families.

Man, this thread perfectly illustrates why women despise “intelligence”. You try to tell an intelligent cis hetero man it’s 10pm and he tells you you’re a fucking moron who needs therapy because ackchyually it’s 10am in Banda Aceh and 6pm in London and 2100 hours in Milan. Nobody wants to be around that much less have it jizz in them.

No, they will.

No they won’t.

You unilaterally claimed that nobody is attracted to intelligence, that everyone is just pretending and they’re really only attracted to physical appearance. Even as hyperbole, that is a wildly unhealthy thing to believe, and you absolutely called yourself out.

What’s wildly unhealthy is loving the person you’re fucking in the same way you love your mother and sister and grandma. I’m not the one calling myself out.

You’re not even trying to understand why everyone disagrees with you.

That’s fine. They’re not even trying to understand what I was saying.

In fact, you’re refusing to even acknowledge that you could be mistaken in your premise that people aren’t attracted to intelligence, and instead lash out. That is why you need therapy.

Are you being serious? Or just attacking me like the other person? Because I’m pretty sure if I go to a therapist and I show them these exchanges, they’re not going to say that I’m the one who needs therapy.

Oh man, I am so sorry I told everyone here that they’re physically attractive. Okay. You win. I’m insane. You’re right. You’re all ugly monsters who will never find love.

Nobody is attracted to intelligence. Don’t say you are because you aren’t. You’re attracted to the body. And whoever you’re with is attracted to your body. That’s romantic love. If you’re upset that people don’t love you for your brain, you suffer from body dysmorphia.