It can be messy and it can be complicated, but it really doesn’t have to be.
I know and bunch of people including myself who are very adult about their (romantic) long-term relationships. Those people tend to work hard in themselves and their relationships, especially in the first few years though.
Having been in the poly community this is really accurate. It’s messy and complicated and you have waaaay less fun than you think.
It’s a big reason why I avoid people now.
It can be messy and it can be complicated, but it really doesn’t have to be.
I know and bunch of people including myself who are very adult about their (romantic) long-term relationships. Those people tend to work hard in themselves and their relationships, especially in the first few years though.