I was responding to a judgement you made. That’s not a baseless assumption mate, there’s literal writing on the wall here of you making an ignorant comment as an admin to defend a moderation mistake.

I don’t know anything about you other than what you’ve said here and I joked you were a bigot but I admit that was hasty. You may be truly ignorant about your judgement backing that 3-6 yo kids can’t learn about queer people even though in our world people from those families have kids of their own.

It might seem reasonable to classify sexuality as something of a sexual nature, but you’re talking about people’s lives here. Someone has to go to school one day in a world where other kids parents told them their parents are perverted. The views you expressed here legitimise that world.

Interesting choice to double down on being ignorant while policing other people’s expression.

It’s frightening someone with your worldview is an admin. But I guess that says a lot about where we’re at hey.

You’re a bigot Harry.

“Everything was fine” as in it was a moment in time where things seemed calm and normal. But I was still carrying a weight inside from suppressing my feelings.

He had a habit of putting me down in front of our friends and making fun of things I liked just to get a rise out of me. That was something I carried with me for years and had tried to talk about before which resulted in a heated argument as well.

Knowing the danger he presented when talking about things while driving as one example, I waited until it was a moment I thought would be safe.

Turns out there was never a safe moment with that guy.

No idea. Best guess it was stunted emotional development when he didn’t get his way. One time we were home and everything was fine so I asked him why he treated total strangers better than he treats me. He disagreed and when I brought up examples he started throwing glasses at a wall and screaming. All I could do at the time was apologise to calm him down.

I had an ex who used to accelerate the car angrily whenever I raised something uncomfortable in the car. One time we were headed out to a game with friends and he got so mad I thought he was gonna slam us right into a house. Nine years of my life wasted on that asshole.